14 March
2010
St. Athanasius Lutheran Church
Lent 4 Vienna, VA
“Coming Home to Prodigal Love”
Text: Luke 15:1-3, 11-32; 2 Corinthians 5:16-21
Grace,
mercy, and peace to you from God our Father, and from our Lord and Saviour
Jesus Christ. Amen.
A man
had two sons.
The
first son was every parent’s dream. He was polite and respectful. He always did his
chores. He never talked back. He was dependable and honest, and a good student.
He went to church, was always well-dressed, ate his vegetables, and even
volunteered to help the poor. The whole town thought well of him, and thought
well of his father because of him. What a blessing, they thought. Maybe God
even has special plans for him, that he be a ruler or leader someday.
The
second son, however, turned out not so good. In fact, he was what we would call
a slacker. He was the rebellious one. His chores often went undone. He
questioned his father’s
authority. He spent most days hanging out with his friends at the mall, wasted
his money, and stole from his father. He got suspended from school, liked to
fight, was disruptive in church, and some nights got so drunk he never came
home at all. The whole town thought they’d be better off without him, and felt sorry for his father
because of him. What a burden, they thought. What a shame.
Then one
day, this son decides to leave home. Sick and tired of being stuck in this
house with all these rules, he’s going to be free. He’s going to do what he wants. No more nagging, no more
chores. Nothin’ but the good life
ahead for him! And that he might have the means to go and live the high life,
he gets his father to cash in his life insurance policy and take a second
mortgage on the house, that he could have his inheritance now. Who cares that that
would cause hardship for his father? Who cares that that money was for college?
Who cares? It’s his
and he wants it. And he’s outta
there. He doesn’t even
remember if he bothered to wave good-bye.
After
that, things went on as usual in the father’s house. In fact, things were a little more peaceful
without the troublemaker around. But everyday, right before dinner, the
faithful son would see his father staring out the window, with a sad look on
his face, deep in thought. He never really understood, just that it happened
everyday.
Well
soon, reports started coming back to the father about his son. He was making
quite a name for himself - and not a good one. And the town thought how
fortunate the father was to be rid of such a son. And the older brother thought
how fortunate they were to be rid of such a rascal. But each day, the father
just looked out the window . . .
After a
while, though, the reports coming back to the father changed. His son was
living on the street; he had gotten evicted. His money had run out, and those
he thought were his friends, who had hung out with him when he was paying for
everything, left him. Last they heard, he was working for less than minimum
wage for a pig farmer. And the town thought: he getting what he deserves. And the
older brother thought: with pigs is where he belongs. But the father kept
looking out the window . . .
Until
one day, looking out the window, he saw him! He saw his son. The clothes were
tattered and torn, his hair and beard were dirty and matted, he was walking
with a limp . . . but he would know his son anywhere, and that was him! And so
he bounded down the steps, ran through the town, and almost bowled his son
over. Despite the pig-stench, he hugged him tighter than he ever had before,
and kissed him through that disgusting beard. And what? Did you say something
son? Uh, nevermind. We have to celebrate! Get you cleaned up! We’ll invite the whole town. You’re home. You’re home.
And the
son said: <mouth gaping open>
And the
town said: <mouth gaping open>
But the
older son said: wait a minute! You’re throwing a party
for him? For him who gives sons everywhere a
bad name. For him who wasn’t content with normal sins, but had to be the sinner of all
sinners. For him who left and stuck us with all the work. For him who doesn’t care about anyone but himself. For
him who wished we all were dead. For him who gave us nothing be grief, and who’s back probably just to take
advantage of you again. You’re throwing a party for him.
Well
what about me, huh? I didn’t do any of that. I’m stuck here, but I never complained about it (at least to
you). I always did what you told me to do, even if I didn’t want to. He’s the scumbag; I’m the faithful one. When am I gonna
get a party, huh? When do I get to have some fun? What about me? And he was so
angry with his father that his face turned all red, the veins in his neck with
bulging out, and the whole town could practically hear him yelling at his
father.
And the
father quietly said: I love you, my son. With all my heart. Everything I have
is yours. But I love your brother also - that doesn’t mean I love you less. He has been
lost for so long, in so many ways. For a while I thought I would never see him
again alive. But now he is back. I forgive him. Whether he will take advantage
of my love and generosity again I do not know. But I love him, and I will
always love him, just as I will always love you. So come and celebrate - not
for him, but for me. My house is full again.
And the
party went on all night. The people of the town marveling at the love and
forgiveness of the father. The younger son wondering how his father could ever
forgive him and welcome him back. And they hardly noticed the father, who kept
standing by the window with a sad look on his face, looking and waiting for his
son to come back . . .
Now
the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear him. And the
Pharisees and the scribes grumbled,
saying, “This man receives sinners and eats with them.” So
[Jesus] told them this parable.
Jesus tells
them this parable, that they then - and we today - might understand that the
love and forgiveness of our Father in heaven is not because of our
faithfulness or our works or how good we are. The younger son couldn’t lose it or earn it back by what he
did, and the older son couldn’t lose it or keep it by what he did. Our Father’s love is all gift, all grace, all
the time.
The
Pharisees and the scribes - who prompted this parable - weren’t bad guys; they just misunderstood,
as we sometimes do, that God’s love cannot be earned, and that His grace is never
deserved. You don’t have
to make promises or shape yourself up or prove you deserve another chance. Just
repent. Just come back to receive His love and forgiveness, for He is here, ready
to bowl you over with His love! And to restore you as His son.
And so
maybe you are like the younger son and have misused your life and the gifts
that have been given you. Or maybe you are more like the older son, the one who
was outwardly faithful, yet in his heart lived a lot of anger and resentment
and pride. Whatever you have been, and whoever you are now, there is a feast
waiting for you. And not just any feast, but the best of the best! No fatted
calf - but the Body and Blood of Jesus are here for you. And no better feast
could there be than this, than to receive the forgiveness, life, and salvation
of the Son who laid down His life for us sinners, that we sinners could be sons
of God.
That is
how we know that our Father wants us back; that our Father is waiting for us;
that He is ready to bowl us over with His love - because Jesus showed us that
love on the cross, where, as St. Paul told us today, He became our sin
offering, that in Him we might become the righteousness of God. Or in
other words, that in Him, we prodigal sons might be welcomed back as forgiven
sons, because of our Saviour’s prodigal love for us. But is that love the Father’s love? It is indeed. For Jesus said:
Whoever has seen me has seen the Father (John
14:9).
That
love is why the younger son returned. Beat up, chewed up, and spit out by the
world, he returns with his tail between his legs - not to punishment - but to
love, prodigal love, lavish love, a greater love than he ever could have
expected or even hoped for.
That
love is why the father wants his older son to return. That his heart, so cold
and hard with self-interest, self-satisfaction, and self-righteousness, might
be melted by the love, the prodigal love, the lavish love of the Father. A love
that son doesn’t really
know, but that his father wants to give.
And that
love is why the father wants you to return. That returning each week and
confessing: Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no
longer worthy to be called your son, He bowls us over with His love and
says: I forgive you all your sins. Come to the feast! I have prepared it
just for you. I am so happy you are here. You’re home!
Yes, we
are home. Home again, in the house of our Father.
In the
Name of the Father and of the (+) Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Now the peace of God which passes all understanding, keep your hearts and minds through faith in Christ Jesus, our Lord. Amen.